How To Make The Most Of Your Opportunities

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 Are we truly making use of the opportunities we are given?

It's so easy to complain about situations and circumstances that we find ourselves in but if we honestly assess these situations, we may find that there are things we could have done to chart a totally different course. 

Let's face it. We are often our own biggest enemy.

Often we miss out on our big chance to shine because we are either not fierce enough to open the doors to opportunities when they knock ,we spend too much time second guessing our talents and competencies , are too caught up with looking for something else or too busy looking at someone else.

Various news sources suggest that some of the most successful people are not necessarily those who had a great start in life but rather those who had tenacity and enough fierceness to grab an opportunity and, despite many odds, have made the most of it and have gone on to be a success. 

Everyone has got potential. 

True , we don't have the same opportunities but far too often we are too reluctant to step out of the old comfort zone, mostly because we are afraid of the imagined failure.

Since one person's success will not necessarily be your own, it's important to be able to identify where your strengths are and to find the right pathway that will help you to move forward.

Having courage and ambition are two life traits that are evident in successful people, that will go a far way in helping you to realise your own goals.

Be willing to step out of your comfort zone and begin to believe in yourself.

Failure will be the only option when you don't give success a chance.

If you lack confidence, seek out a good life coach who can help guide you to develop the skills you need to make a successful change.

Self help resources are also widely available on the internet and there are courses you can take to upskill in almost any area. Online learning providers like Udemy have become popular in recent times, offering courses across a wide range of skills. 

Below I have put together a few tips to that may help make the most of the opportunities that may come your way!






1. See your glass as half full

Yes it's probably an overused cliché but I'm using it anyway because its absolutely spot on. Try to see the positive in even the most bleak of circumstance. Chances are , you missed out on a great opportunity  while being too caught up with what you lost or what you didn't achieve.

"make each day your masterpiece!"

2. Make the most of that opportunity!

Take advantage of situations to succeed. The time we spend second guessing our abilities or readiness to take on challenges that come out way is better spent on finding ways that can make these situations work to your benefit.

 After all , how will you know how successful you could be if you never tried? Even if you do not succeed at first attempt, you haven't failed but rather have gained experience and insight that can help you move forward.

3. Ask for help

There is no shame in asking for help to get unstuck. Sometimes all it takes is someone else with a fresher or different perspective to help point us in the right direction.

4. Don't hold on to past mistakes!

Dwelling on regrets is the greatest way to set yourself up for failure. There are no road maps or sign posts in life.

 Some people are blessed with a great sense of direction and find and follow a clear path to success. Others, may become distracted or may have gotten a little lost. That's ok! 

Take the steps to reinvent yourself , build your confidence and move forward.

5. Invest

Don't be afraid to invest in your success. Seek help from a coach, start a business or take a course. 

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6.Take note

The mistakes that one person make can be a great lesson and opportunity for someone else. 

Learn from others mistakes, and from their success too!

7. Be generous

 Don't be afraid to be part of others success! 

Caring doesn't have to come at a high cost and can often make a great difference to someone else. Make the most of the opportunities to give and share with those around you who may need it the most . Spread kindness. It could well be an investment in your success.

8. Keep learning

Strive for knowledge. Make use of opportunities to learn a new skill and ultimately uplift your status. A new approach can give you a great new start!


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So, what opportunity are you sitting on today? What great change do you really need to make to move YOU forward? 

Take a chance on yourself. Go on, you will be glad you did. 

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